Associations

Have you ever noticed how we humans tend to associate things with things in our minds. Like we go to some city and have a bad experience there. We would always associate the bad part with the city and wouldn't want to go there again and give it a second chance. Similarly we have experiences with people and we no matter how much we try to move on, those memories linger on in our minds and we would associate that bad thing with that person somewhere always in our sub conscious no matter how much he/she is good to us afterwards.

There are some relationships though that are so powerful that you not only forgive but also forget the bad things some involved party did to you and move on with a fresh start as if nothing happened in the first place. So yes, we humans have the capability of driving away from associations in our minds but we mostly don't make effective use of it due to the power our mind has over our heart. If we do put the aforementioned capability to work, I am sure we would have new and better experiences in our life in various matters, but yes its difficult to do that, it definitely is.

Then again, 'will power' can take you places, can't it ?

Leave it or Take it

What do you suppose should be done if something is not working for you like for example you have taken up a task, and you are not abe to complete it successfully on multiple trials. Shall you just leave it of shall you keep on trying till it start reaping results ? Its a difficult query because sometimes that task is giving you more sadness of failure than the happiness of hope in tries and other times vice versa. I also feel that at that particular moment of decision of what to do and what not to do, you get more attracted towards the easier path; the difficult part which is the letting go and going on part seems kind of implausible at that time. Being rational is the key here, no matter what ever decision you need to take in life, you need to think hard and clear before going for it. Some times its the heap of emotions that make a decision for you which you might regret later but if the mind and heart both point towards the same direction, just dont think, take a plunge for it ! life will automatically become better ....

Stuck on ........... ?!

Ok so there are things in life which are worth spending time on according to my definitions and then then there are things which aren't that important in some forms of word but then again the point is not that; the point is that why do things get stuck on your mind, important or unimportant, why do they don't go away?

Having often asked this question to myself and getting no answer, just makes me ponder on it, all over again. These days there are a few things which are surely bothering me more than what my mental and physical capacities can take. All of them seems to me like the devil's ploys against me but then again I keep getting the question whether it is just the devil or is it actually me?

It feels so incomplete without getting the answers to the questions that my mind asks my soul. May be I have to look more and more and more ...to find the sunshine land and to fulfill my satisfaction. By the way, I liked this word I just formulated ...the sunshine land ... its heavy!

Chaos!

There are times in our lives when mind is in total opposition to heart. Your heart wants to believe in something so badly ... its like that thin branch of happiness you are holding onto and in your mind, you believe that if you leave it, everything will be gone. On the contrary, there is the mind, which in its own space is more stronger than the weak heart and the mind has its very own strong say as well. Both the heart and mind is pulling me in the opposite direction right now. My hearts wants to believe something which will make me happy, where as the mind wants me to see the hard facts of actuality. Why doesn't the mind get it that no matter how strong it is or how weak the heart may be, the blood pumping to the whole body is still provided by the heart and no blood means no body, no brain, no mind, no soul ... no me ... I want to listen to my heart and I so want to ... but can I live in a dreamland forever even if I want to ?

Quietness

Do you ever feel like keeping quiet for no good reason ? Are there times when you just don't feel like saying anything or everything or nothing even ? Its a strange phenomena .... the mind is ready to do things in the 'normal' way but the heart pushes the mind away , forces it to do things the way it want. The forceful heart makes the mind go numb and the tongue go quiet. People do say , mind is everything, it controls all the stuff that we do or not do , but I believe heart in itself is a powerful organ. It finds different ways to do what it wants and rest of the body concurs.

At times like these , when you are only 'silent'; Ronan keating's voice may tingle your mind chords by those lyrics of his which goes like '' You say it best, when you say nothing at allllllllllllll '' !!! :)

I guess, its good to remain quiet 'at times', but my advice , dont make it a habit as there must be some existences who want to hear you out and even if there aren't , let your own being enjoy the rythm of your voice and not the echo of your muteness.